Showing posts with label LOVE. Show all posts
Showing posts with label LOVE. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

APRIL 15TH - NEXT "WORLD GOOD THINKING DAY" - SHARE AND ENJOY!


THIS MONDAY APRIL 15TH IS THE NEW AND NEXT “GOOD THINKING DAY”

ONCE AGAIN WE ENCOURAGE ALL THE PEOPLE ALL OVER THE WORLD TO SPEND  FIVE MINUTES OF THAT DA, THINKING OR MEDITATIING ABOUT SOMETHING GOOD FOR YOURSELF, FOR THE HUMANITY AND / OR TO THE WORLD. POSITIVNESS !!!



 


 

TO AVOID THE MESSAGES GIVEN BY TV, MAGAZINES AND AL MEDIA NEWS, WE WILL THINK ABOUT A POSITIVE THING TO SHARE WITH THE ENTIRE WORLD.


 

IT CAN BE JUST MEDITATING , THINKING POSITEIVELY, WHISHING GODNESS TO YOU, TO YOU CLOSER PEOPLE, AND EVERYTHING YOU WOULD LIKE TO.

A MESSAGE OF PECE NOT FOR THE WORLD, BUT PEACE THAT IS LOCATED INSIDE OUR BODY AND OUR SOULS, JOINING FORECES TO MAKE OURSELVES  BETTER AND TOGETHER GENERATE A WORLD WIDE  GOOD THINKING DAY, IN ORDER TO SHOW AND DEMOSTRATWE THAT WE ARE READY TO ENJOY THE LIFE AS IT IS GIVEN TO US AND WILL BE GRATFULL FOR THE LIFE WE WERE GIVEN

 

REMEMBER JUST FIVE MINUTES, YOUR FIVE MINUTES TO BE CONCIOUS THAT WE ARE HERE, AND WE ARE ALL FOR ONE REASON, LIVE IN PEACE WITH OURSELVES, ENJOY EACH AND SINGLE MINUTE OF OUR LIVES AND WISH THE BEST TO EVERY SINGLE HUMAN AND NOT HUMAN LIVING CREATURE OF THIS PLANET

 

ENJOY! JOIN! SHARTE!

THE GOOD WILL TIMES

Tuesday, March 5, 2013

ONLY GOOD NEWS, NOTHING ELSE, JUST ENJOY LIVING!

 
Have you ever realized that, besides 99% of the news on tv, radio, paper etc, shows not good news, like "war here" "conflict there" or "xx people died" and news like that, telling about death, war, sikness, hungry, conflicts and things related to that, again besides it, NOBODY,  neither the tv broadcasts, neither the writers not even the people that reads, listen, watch those  news, just pays attention to this but DOES NOT SHARE THE FEELING THAT THE PEOPLE AFFECTED IN THOSE NEWS FEELS.

So having this into consideration, if we dont share neither care about the people that is not having a good time in their lives, than why wath those news? does ir gives us something goo for our lives? NO!. Does it teaches something to us? NO! so lets just turn off the TV, radio and avoid reading / comment those news that are nothing but sickness to our hearth and spend some times reading some good news and feeding our  brain and most of all OUR SOUL  with time to worry about what we really want and what our hearth lead us to go!


THE GODD TIMES ARE COMMING! LETS SHARE OUR PLEACE, LOVE AND WELL BEING TOGETHER!


Monday, December 31, 2012

ONE MORE YEAR - NEW GOOD THINGS TO COME, A BETTER YEAR FOR EVERYONE



At the end of one year, everybody spend times reviewing what went right and what went wrong, tv shows, radios, newspapers, all media stations of all kinds remember good and bad thing happened in this 2012.



We only remember the good things! and we wish you the best and to keep looking at THE GOOD WILL TIMES!



 
 
Because good things always happents and more, and even more  and better things will keep happening till the end of our days, with no more words to say that,"thanks", enjoy"  "happiness" "wisdom" peace" "love"







 
WISH THE BEST TO EVEWRY SINGLE PERSON IN THE WORLD AND THE UNIVERSE!!!!


Thursday, December 20, 2012

FRIDAY DECEMBER 21ST - GOOD THINKING - GOOD WISH - GOOD WILL DAY!! SHARE!!


FRIDAY DECEMBER 21ST – WORLD MEDITATION DAY! GOOD THINKING - RECCOMENDED!! / INVITE YOUR FRIENDS AND EVERYBODY!

This FRIDAY, DECEMBER 21, I Invite you to spend from one to five minutes meditating or just thinking about something in this world you want, can and would like to be improved......


It can be to stop the war , stop the poorness in the least developed countries, stop cntamination and global heating, or even something more personal, like get closer to people you would like to, say i love you to somebody you feel like, or just wish the best and happiness to whoever you want even yourself.
 

 
But it would be great to have everybody involved in this, for which tell your friends, family co-workers, known people, even your enemies if you have, your ex friends, your ex boyfriend of girlfriedn, everybody is invitred to share something that just need to have one thing: A GOOD THINKING OR A GOOD WISH

 
Because the place where we go is the same and the world that we live belongs to all of us, lets give him an opportunity and hope to be with us and we be in it for the rest of our live and let all the future generations enjoy a good, perfect and wonderfull world as it is today

 
And whatever you do or think, and whoever want to participate on this is invited, because there will be always an open door, no matter sex, race, religion, thiking or whatever distinction that the society may do or have, but most important than anything, we are all just one and perfect HUMANITY
 
 

Thursday, September 20, 2012

BUENA VIDA - Primavera para el amor - ARGENTINA

 

 

El clima cálido y la exposición al sol aumentan los estímulos y el deseo. Médicos y psicólogos dicen que estar enamorado mejora la salud y la capacidad para hacerle frente al estrés. Un remedio que no se vende bajo receta.
El bienestar, la estabilidad, la certidumbre, la seguridad y la compañía que configura la pareja aumentan la resistencia frente al estrés.
El bienestar, la estabilidad, la certidumbre, la seguridad y la compañía que configura la pareja aumentan la resistencia frente al estrés.

         


Los días cálidos invitan a salir y divertirse. La primavera es una de las estaciones preferidas de los poetas que le escriben al amor. Pero, ¿la llegada de esta estación modifica el comportamiento emocional? Lo que la ciencia sabe es que el aumento de la temperatura, los días más largos y la exposición a la luz solar aumentan los estímulos, especialmente los que entran por los ojos y por la nariz, influyen en el erotismo y, previo paso por el sistema nervioso central, provocarían una mayor predisposición a la erección y el deseo.

Estar enamorado y ser corres­pondido, lo sabe cualquiera que lo haya experimentado, es un estado en el que hasta los más escépticos sienten que todo está bien y que la felicidad es po­sible. Esa sensación tiene explica­ciones diversas que varían de acuerdo a la teoría desde la que se la mire. Pero tanto la psicología, como la medicina y la neurobio­logía coinciden en el diagnóstico: una persona "enamorada" es una persona más sana que aquellas que no sienten amor, en cualquiera de sus variantes.

“Hay que diferenciar el amor del enamoramiento, que es la eta­pa más fascinante, el enamorado se siente poderoso, y está como hechizado”, explica la psicoanalista Lila Isacovich, directora del Area Asistencial de la Fundación Bue­nos Aires. “El amor no sólo es sa­ludable, es indispensable y necesa­rio, si no, uno cae en la melancolía y en la depresión. Cuando por mo­mentos el amor decae nos senti­mos desgraciados. Uno soporta la vida porque hay amor”, agrega.

Sin ansiedad

“Enamorarse es una de las condi­ciones más deseadas por el ser humano. El estado de enamora­miento es uno de los más placen­teros, no es casualidad que se de­dique un día al año para recordar a San Valentín, protector de los enamorados, para que vele por el porvenir del romance y por ese ser que ha sido buscado y encontrado en la vida”, señala la licenciada Ga­briela Martínez Castro, psicóloga y directora del Centro de Estudios Especializados en Trastornos de Ansiedad (CEETA).

“El estado de enamoramiento debería ser uno de los más gratificantes, el ánimo es óptimo, la creatividad se incre­menta, aumenta la motivación por el cuidado personal, incluyendo el cuidado físico, aunque esto se pue­da transformar en un problema para las personas ansiosas que confunden los síntomas muy co­munes del enamoramiento con un cuadro de ansiedad”, advierte . Có­mo distinguirlos: los síntomas del amor enriquecen la vida, los de los trastornos de ansiedad, por el con­trario, la complican e incapacitan.

El cerebro y sus circuitos

Los efectos del amor también se ven en las neuronas. “Hay estudios que sugieren que en el amor se activan los sistemas de recompensa del cerebro y se des­activan los circuitos cerebrales res­ponsables de las emociones nega­tivas y de la evaluación social”, aporta el doctor Facundo Manes, director de INECO y del Instituto de Neurociencias de la Fundación Favaloro.

“El bienestar, la estabilidad, la certidumbre, la seguridad y la compañía que configura la pareja aumentan la resistencia frente al estrés”, dice, por su parte, el doctor Daniel López Rosetti, presidente de la So­ciedad Argentina de Medicina del Estrés.

“El amor, en términos bur­sátiles, es una buena inversión, porque la resiliencia (la capacidad de sobreponerse a situaciones ad­versas) mejora en las situaciones en que las personas se sienten queridas. Si se pudiera recetar cápsulas de amor, los médicos las indicarían”, concluye, romántico.

La salud del vínculo

Una investigación publicada en el Journal of Psychosomatic Medicine demuestra que los hombres casados desarrollan menor nivel de ateroesclerosis que los solteros.

“La tranquilidad y la estabilidad emocional disminuyen el nivel de estrés y generan menor formación de ateroesclerosis”, explica el estudio. ¿Qué ocurre con las mujeres? “Se comprobó que quienes desarrollan menor nivel de ateroesclerosis son aquellas que manifestaron vivir una relación de pareja feliz. Así, se interpretó que en los hombres importa más el status (‘estar casado’), mientras que en las mujeres es central que sea un vínculo satisfactorio”.

Otro estudio, realizado entre más de 500 mil parejas formadas por mayores de 65 años, mostró cuánto daña la salud la viudez: el riesgo de muerte aumentó hasta un 21% en los hombres que enviudaron y hasta el 17% en las mujeres.

Monday, September 17, 2012

YOUR NEWS AND OUR NEWS ARE THE WORLD NEWS, FROM THE PEOPLE TO THE HUMANITY!


If you see, listen, read, or have a Good New to tell from no matter where in the World , and want to get it shown and shared with and in the world all around,, please send it to thegoodwilltimes@gmail.com, mentioning your name, age and country and we will publish it

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Monday, September 10, 2012

SOCIETY - Red Cross embraces challenges - CHINA




The Red Cross Society of China is coordinating with an international oversight body as it builds a modern, humanitarian organization and bids farewell to the turbulence of its recent past.

The society came under fire last year after a young woman, claiming to be a society official, wrote a micro blog boasting about her lavish lifestyle and flaunting her wealth. It caused a huge public backlash.

“Despite the fact that it was pure fantasy, the society’s image suffered. But it also showed that we needed reform to become more open and transparent,” Zhao Baige, executive vice-president of the society, said at a forum on Saturday attended by Red Cross societies in the Asia-Pacific region.

The society is working with the oversight group, the International Federation of Red Cross and Red Crescent Societies, to achieve globally recognized certification, Zhao said.

The Organizational Capacity and Assessment Certification sets standards to evaluate Red Cross societies.

“It helps us know ourselves better and make targeted improvements,” Zhao told China Daily.

Self-development, work implementation, resource mobilization and supervision, will all be under scrutiny and will be expected to meet certain standards, according to Tadateru Konoe, federation president.

China’s growing global clout means that the public have a right to expect the best from the society, he said.

The society set an excellent example by coordinating with the federation, Zhao said.

To date, only 21 of the 187 global Red Cross societies worldwide have completed the certification process and Konoe praised China for its openness.

“It’s like operating on yourself to heal your own defects and this takes courage,” Zhao said.

The society is at the first stage of the certification process. This involves an internal evaluation that is carried out domestically by specialists, society decision makers and some branch leaders.

Internal governance, organizational independence, leadership capacity, volunteer mobilization, and public supervision need to be substantially improved to meet today’s challenges, Zhao said.

These are also in line with the current reform measures, she said.

Konoe agreed, adding that “great adaptability is an important asset for strong Red Cross societies”.

Many leaders of national societies were promoted from the lower ranks.

“I myself also started as a volunteer,” Konoe said.

After the self-evaluation phase, the society will launch a peer review. This will see the society evaluated by other national societies in the global Red Cross family.

The whole process will take at least two years.

“We may release a global ranking of Red Cross national societies,” Konoe said.

Contact the writer at shanjuan@chinadaily.com.cn

Friday, August 17, 2012

MORE THAN 10,000 LIKES AND FOLLOWERS!! THANKS, AND GO ON!!



To see that, at least one smile per person, form one of our good news you like, make more than 10,000 smiles around the World, encourages us to go ahead and keep looking for those good news, that we all know in the world happens!





One more time, we can not promise you anything, but for sure we will do our best to, very single day, put at least one good new for you! In order to e able to make this world start a day with a smile, and end same with other.



Because no mather where you are, we will let you know that Good things Happens, and more will be each day for you and for all of us!!







TANKS!!! AND SHARE WITH YOUR FRIENDS, FAMILY, COLLEAGUES, AND THE WHOLE HUMANITY!!!

Sunday, August 12, 2012

NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, LOVE FIRST!

Love conquers all: Filipino newlyweds share a kiss while knee-deep in floodwaters, as the country braces for a fresh deluge

By Damien Gayle
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When it's your big day, come rain or shine you have to make the best of it.
These Filipino newlyweds showed love conquers all when they pushed through with their scheduled wedding despite severe flooding that inundated wide areas of Manila and nine nearby provinces.
Ramoncito Campo and Hernelie Ruazol Campo were pictured sharing this touching kiss after they exchanged vows with water up to their knees in a Catholic church in the Filipino capital.
 
Love conquers all: Ramoncito Campo kisses his wife Hernelie Ruazol Campo on a flooded street on Wednesday during the aftermath of a monsoon that battered Manila, causing an estimated 66 deaths

 
For wet or for dry? Mr and Mrs Campo share a more passionate kiss in the flooded church where they were wed
They were pictured in the flooded church and nearby streets last wednesday, as the Philippines recovered from a tropical storm which left an estimated 66 people dead and affected a millions more.
To the traditional wedding vow of 'for better and for worse', the new Mr and Mrs Campo could have perhaps added their own promise, 'for wet or for dry'


Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2187356/Love-conquers-Filipino-newlyweds-share-kiss-knee-deep-floodwaters-country-braces-fresh-deluge.html#ixzz23MruDzBI

Friday, July 13, 2012

SATURDAY JULY 21ST – WORLD MEDITATION DAY! GOOD THINKING - RECCOMENDED!! / INVITE YOUR FRIENDS AND EVERYBODY!



This SATURDAY, JULY 21ST WE Invite you to spend from one to five minutes meditating or just thinking about something in this world you want, can and would like to be improved......

                                             




It can be to stop the war in Syria, stop the poorness in the least developed countries, stop cntamination and global heating, or even something more personal, like get closer to people you would like to, say i love you to somebody you feel like, or just wish the best and happiness to whoever you want even yourself.



But it would be great to have everybody involved in this, for which tell your friends, family co-workers, known people, even your enemies if you have, your ex friends, your ex boyfriend of girlfriedn, everybody is invitred to share something that just need to have one thing: A GOOD THINKING OR A GOOD WISH





Because the place that we go is the same and the world that we live belongs to all of us, lets give him an opportunity and hope to be with us and we be in it for the rest of our live and let all the future generations enjoy a
good, perfect and wonderfull world as it is today











And whatever you do or think, and whoever want to participate on this is invited, because
there will be always an open door, no matter sex, race, religion, thiking or whatever distinction that the society may do or have, but most important than anything, we are all just one and perfect HUMANITY


Wednesday, June 20, 2012

SUNDAY JUNE 24TH - WORLDWIDE MOVEMENT OF GOOD THINKING - RECCOMENDED!! / INVITE YOUR FRIENDS AND EVERYBODY!

This Sunday, June 24 I Invite you to spend from one to five minutes meditating or just thinking about something in this world you want, can and would like to be improved......





It can be to stop the war in Syria, stop the poorness in the least developed countries, stop cntamination and global heating, or even something more personal, like get closer to people you would like to, say i love you to somebody you feel like, or just wish the best and happiness to whoever you want even yourself.

 But it would be great to have everybody involved in this, for which tell your friends, family co-workers, known people, even your enemies if you have, your ex friends, your ex boyfriend of girlfriedn, everybody is invitred to share something that just need to have one thing:                                    A GOOD THINKING OR A GOOD WISH




Because the place that we go is the same and the world that we live belongs to all of us, lets give him an opportunity and hope to be with us and we be in it for the rest of our live and let all the future generations enjoy a good, perfect and wonderfull world as it is today








And whatever you do or think, and whoever want to participate on this is invited, because there will be always an open door, no matter sex, race, religion, thiking or whatever distinction that the society may do or have, but most important than anything, we are all just one and perfect HUMANITY



PEACE

Tuesday, June 12, 2012

SHOERT STORIES 2 - CHINA

Girl makes poem calenda for lover

Updated: 2012-02-13 15:03


Xiao Xue, a college junior in Shanghai, has been in love with her boyfriend, who studies in Beijing, for more than a year. This Valentine's Day, they will remain in distant cities.
But Xiao has prepared a special gift for him: She wrote poems about the 12 most touching moments in their relationship, for a calendar, one poem for each month.


Girl makes poem calenda for lover


She has packed the gift and sent it away, making sure that he will get it before Feb 14. She believes that her gift is sure to move her boyfriend, who has some chauvinistic tendencies

Saturday, June 2, 2012

LIFESTYLE - MALAYSIA

Watching the kids grow up


Koh Kim Lye with his wife Sally and their brood: (From second left) Tilly, Timorthy, Mimi and Darren celebrating Timorthy’s birthday on April 9 last year.
FATHERS FIGURE
By KOH KIM LYE


It was love at first sight up on Genting Highlands, where I met this wonderful woman. Soon, we became a loving couple. After about three years together, we were very sure that we were meant for each other. So we decided to have a grand wedding and settle down. Then, the wonderful woman became Mrs Koh.

Two years after that, she got pregnant and later gave birth to a cute baby girl. Three more kids followed. By then she had quit her job to become a housewife. While she took care of the household chores and cooked for the family, I acted as a good friend to my colleagues, a loyal husband to my wife, and a responsible father to my children.

Occasionally when I came home during the wee hours of the morning, the sight of the kids peacefully asleep would take away all my tiredness. It is a feeling only a parent will understand.

No matter how busy I was, I would make time for the family, especially on Sundays when there were no school activities and we would go to church. I always made sure, too, to keep track of my children’s studies. Watching them do well in their studies or representing their school in public speaking made all the hard work worth it. Somehow, though, they did not really open up much to me, while they would tell everything to their mum. So, I usually had to seek further information from my wife.

Not to brag but my children matured earlier than others their age. They knew their limits and always thought twice before spending any money. They certainly knew I worked hard for the money.

From their primary school days, my wife always sent food to the kids when they had to stay back in school.

Unlike many children who were not keen to have food from home, my kids never complained. I was very proud of them. Who cares how other people judge you, right? They continued with the habit of bringing food from home, such as cookies and bread, even as teenagers.

I am now retired and enjoying a relaxing life, though not living in clover, that’s for sure. I spend my time ferrying my youngest about, to school and to tuition. I take pride in watching him excel in his exams and I keep encouraging him in many ways.

My eldest child, a girl, is now a very proud nurse at a hospital. My second daughter is still in university. My third and fourth, both boys, are in school. The elder one has just got his SPM results while his brother is struggling in Form Four (“It’s no honeymoon,” he says).

Me? I continue to be a supportive father to the four of them. Life has been one awesome ride for me – I live, I married, and I have childen of my own. As a dad, it’s been a great pleasure seeing my children all grown up and doing well in their lives. I will always be there for them and help them with the problems they may encounter. May they one day be great parents to their own children.

Remember, Papa loves you all and always will.

Star2's Fathers Figure invites fathers of any age and every stripe – rich dad, poor dad, single father, fun dad, tiger dad – to talk about their parenting experiences. Email your stories to
star2@thestar.com.my with the subject header ‘Fathers Figure,’ preferably between 600 and 800 words, with a photo attached. Published contributions will be paid. So please include your full name, IC number, address and contact number.

Saturday, May 26, 2012

PHILLIPINES - CHANGING WORLD

Responsible Fatherhood

Changing World
By DR. BERNARDO M. VILLEGAS
May 24, 2012, 6:35pm


MANILA, Philippines — Some of the most striking advertising messages I have seen in the entries to the annual Tambuli award given by the University of Asia and the Pacific to values-laden and effective marketing campaigns have to do with responsible fatherhood. Whether they have to do with fast food services, chocolate candies, insurance policies, or noodles, the marketing of products or services is increasingly being tied up with the need for the father of the family to increasingly spend time with his children and to devote both quantity and quality time to interacting with the entire family, especially during dinner.
In a recent trip to Indonesia, I noticed that the emphasis on the role of the father in the appropriate raising of children is becoming an Asian-wide, if not universal, phenomenon. In the March 25, 2012, issue of the Jakarta Globe, I read an article by Emmy Fitr entitled "Teaching Modern-Day Fathers to Raise Families." The article reported about an association founded by a child education specialist, Irwan Rinaldi, called Sahabat Ayah (Father's Best Friend). Mr. Rinaldi is advocating a change of mindset among Indonesian fathers who have traditionally assumed that they are excused from any child-rearing duties because they are the breadwinners. They have relegated the upbringing of children almost exclusively to their wives. Considering today's circumstances, in which more mothers have to juggle professional work with taking care of the home, there must be a change in the lifestyle among fathers. Mr. Rinaldi says it all: "Many fathers believe that it is enough to be physically present around their children. They don't realize how important their role is in shaping a child's character by getting involved... Every morning I see fathers drop their children at school, but they are busy checking their BlackBerrys. They don't even look into their children's eyes when parting, let along say something encouraging."
The situation may not be as extreme in the Philippines. Through parish-based organizations or private initiatives of parents themselves (as in the cases of EDUCHILD Foundation and the Parents for Education Foundation), there are more fathers getting involved in the day-to-day business of child rearing. Mothers are no longer being left alone to fend for themselves in the upbringing of children. Much more can be done, however, to promote the cause of father involvement, not only in child rearing but in household chores in general. It is good to be reminded by Indonesians, who are predominantly Muslim, about the very Catholic doctrine that marriage is for the procreation and education of children. Because of gender stereotypes, however spending a lot of time at home and in housework has been considered a predominantly female task. We may have to set up more organizations that can replicate the work of Sahabat Ayah in the Philippines at all social levels.
Irwan reminds fathers that the most critical period in character building is between infancy and 15 years. Many of them miss the opportunity because they think that being with their young children is a waste of time. In a regular radio talk show on fathering, Irwan encourages Indonesian fathers to be more pro-active in the affairs in the household: "Fathering knows no break. If you only begin when your children are older than 15, it's too late. Pre-teen is a rough period that children must struggle through, which is why fathers must build a solid foundation with their children." They must have sufficient theoretical as well as practical knowledge about their role as regards the whole-person development of their sons and daughters, which must involve different psychological and spiritual approaches. The father must be specially sensitive to the need of his pre-teen sons to be given advice on adolescent sexuality. He must also know how to support his wife in guiding their daughters on the same subject. This parental responsibility was especially highlighted in a TV advertisement of a consumer product, in which a teenage daughter during a family meal referred to the predicament of a girl classmate who was impregnated by her boyfriend.
Irwan, in addition to the radio talk show, drives his motorcycle (the most ubiquitous object in Jakarta) every day to meet fathers in parking lots and other public places. In one of the sessions with fathers, he met a mining company executive who was having a hard time connecting with his 12-year-old daughter. He asked the father if he ever called his daughter during the day just to tell her he missed her. "He said he never did. So I asked him to call her that afternoon. It's not easy. When the daughter picked up the phone, her answer was hostile like 'Why did you call?' " It seems it took several days for the father to begin a healthy conversation. It took some time before the father could begin a healthy conversation with the daughter. “The words” I called you because I miss you and want to know how you have been doing today’ seemed to be so hard to say," remarked the anxious father. Fortunately, he had made the first step. He had broken the ice. I hope fathers who are reading this column will examine their own practices and make the necessary changes to improve their relations with their children. As the name of the Indonesian foundation suggests, fathers should be the best friends of their children. For comments, my e-mail address is bernardo.villegas@uap.asia.