LIFE / RELATIONS - INDONESIA

Sex Without Orgasm Can Fix Marriage

Author: Hesti Pratiwi | Sunday, July 15, 2012 | 20: 57

 

 

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Bercintalah in the spirit of enjoying the togetherness not simply achieved satisfaction.

KOMPAS.com — an orgasm in a relationship the husband and wife became important, sometimes even as a benchmark a beatific households. No anyal You are bombarded with segal tips and tricks and also satisfy Your partner. Sadarkah You can also turn this backfire in the harmony of your household? So, if there is a problem on this one topic, can give rise to religious harmonisan.

But it turned out to be deliberately did not reach the climax of sex in a relationship can be a therapy to improve the relationship of marriage being cracked or have been bland.

This method is called Karezza – taken from the language of Italy, Carezza meaning — i.e. deliberately avoid stroking to orgasm and more emphasis to emotions, closeness, and attention to the couple. This concept was first introduced by Dr. Alice Bunker Stockham of Chicago in 1896 and then developed by many doctors.

To date, there have been many couples who have admitting Karezza techniques help save their marriage, puts a new passion in life, eliminating sexual addiction on pornography, even curing various sexual dysfunction.

"These techniques are changing the nature of sex is more than just a physical relationship, but intimacy, emotional relationships, mind, and heart. Kepuasannya level is limited by an orgasm, "says Robinson, Marnia L author of Cupid's Arrow Poison.

Interested? This is a list of guidelines for making her activity relationships without climax You satisfy:

 -The smile on the couple.
-Face pair with amorous and teasing for a while.
-Give attention and tuned in to the roar of each breath.
-Belai or subtly massage the head and shoulders of a partner.
-Your partner in silent Dekap for 20 minutes to half an hour.
-Enjoy the ambiance and feel free to remove the voices to express affection or satisfaction without words.
-Give comfort to couples with massaging, caressing, and hugged for a few moments.
-Start procession foreplay with a touch and others.
-Bercintalah to enjoy the camaraderie and affection in couples, not to an orgasm.
-The last and most important, provide time for your partner. In this way requires you to provide a lot of the time, do this technique in a hurry because the flurry of work or the other will not be useful at all.

Source: dailymail.co.uk

LIFESTYLE - ESTONIA (RECOMMENDED)

If you would not, would not be the entire world

Trainer Kaido Pajumaa writes portal sisekosmos. ee from the fact that people live for themselves, and that anyone in particular is important because it also depend on other people.

 

It is not always that easy. Often causes a lot of trouble and suffering for joy and satisfaction, which may seem impossible as a mission. See either or their daily lives-it starts with pissihäda and tühjakõhutundega, which can be added to a number of other days, still under attack on and problems. Pissihäda and kannatustena on the physical level of the abdomen is empty in reality only the tip of the iceberg of what constitute human psychological suffering-for the pain of the loss of people close to him or her, lahkuminekutest, ebaõnnestumistest and alalõpmatust in a dream job at the break. Life is not easy. Coming already came to the Buddha.

For whom are we?
We see the world through their own. Some vaimsem person can argue that his here lives for the benefit of other people, but this is probably just as long as all her life is more or less well. Often it is sufficient to indicate its a small diversion elurütmist (loss of job, loss of money, or elukaaslasega), where the whole of spirituality and human weakness will remain behind the scenes, you will need to raise.
We live for themselves. Psychologists say that up to 90 per cent of our day-to-day business thinking relates directly or indirectly to the US itself. Eckhart Tolle says that this percentage is even higher, while approaching, there is a 1.
How could it be otherwise? This is, after all, we live our lives. Of course, we want to keep it straight, that his life is still as much rejoicing. Until life lähebki as we can avoid the US fits, and psychological pain. However, if something should happen, that goes contrary to our expectations, are also suffering as soon as platsis.
If we live a life for themselves, and can sometimes feel in addition to mõttetuse lootusetuse. It often shows a comfortable through the question: "But what if this crap would stop right away?". Yes, suitsiidsed thoughts for many is not something new. Suicide seems to be pääsemisena. But the question is, for whom?

Do we still have?
Until we live only for yourself, live in a world where a restricted very much under attack on worries. What would happen if, however, more to live for other people? How our lives would be if we were gonna own interests above those of the other people set up?
Do we still have? Yes, we can, because we have very many people around who know the joy of our adherence. And if you sometimes feel that you no longer have a reason to live, they ask how their world would be, if you eventually no longer.
We need to be, because a lot of people love us. Sometimes it seems that these people do not have enough, but only because we've lost the love for yourself. In the absence of other people, notably in the energy of love, may cause occur in the feeling that we are not armastata.
We need to be because many people peace of mind depends on our adherence. We have mothers and fathers, sisters and brothers, and friends and acquaintances whose lives have a lot of värvilisem, where we have our existence. We'll make their living only by ' how we exist. Of course, we need to be. For them.
We need to be, because our children depend on us. We are your children love donors. Love is not sold on the market, such as the tomatit and the kurki. Love is a very defitsiitne item that can be equipped with only his mother and the child's father. If not, are the children of armastusenäljas.
We need to be, because if any of them would not be the world could not exist. Just as our body cannot exist without the rakkudeta, could not exist without the world. ' Even if you, in the meantime, it seems that you're insignificant and nobody märkaks, if you would, then the truth is that this is not true. You're important, because you are dependent on other people, and through it the whole world.
We're a community. If you do not have a lot of people would be unhappy. If in turn they cannot mitmekordistuks a number of unfortunate people, instantly to all inimühiskonnani. Therefore, let your peace of mind depends on the society as a whole.
Maybe you're a inspireerivast book to read that we are all interconnected, and you've been looking for this link that connects us all. No, it is not the air, it's not something more mysterious keys or prana. It is something very simple and practical. This is the world itself. If you would not, would not be the entire world.

SOCIETY - UNITED ARAB EMIRATES

Happy to be in Dubai

Lily B. Libo-on / 12 June 2012

Happiness is on a high in Dubai. A new survey released on Monday said the happiness average in the emirate is 7.9 on a scale of one-to-10.

The study was conducted by the Community Development Authority (CDA) in cooperation with the Dubai Statistics Center.
It said the happiness average among Emiratis was 8.3, and for Western expatriates it was eight. Arab expatriates scored 7.9 and Asian expatriates 7.8.

People are enjoying the performance of artist’s at the opening ceremony of the Dubai sopping festival at creek park in Dubai. - KT photo by M.sajjad

It also indicated 93% of Dubai community felt secure and protected. Among Emirati families this figure was about 96% and expatriate families almost 89%.
The study covering social cohesion said that the highest satisfaction percentage of families was among Europeans at 97.7%, followed by Arab families 97.3%, Asian families 96.9% and Emirati families 93.6%.
It appeared the highest percentage of cultural diversification in Dubai was among Arab expatriates at 81.7%, followed by European families 81.1%, Asian families 77.3% and Emirati families 65.9%.
When it came to human rights, the study found that 95% of Dubai population felt secure in their financial resources to meet their food requirements, and that only 17.5% of non-Emiratis did not agree that human rights were not protected in Dubai.
A whopping 93% of Dubai residents are proud of their city and almost 80% are proud of Emirati culture while 57% were proud of the Arab language.
Some 88.7 per cent of the employees residing in the labour accommodations felt they are protected for arbitrary work practices in Dubai.
The study conducted to measure the current levels of key performance indicators for its five-year strategy (2010-2014), is designed to strengthen community service standards in Dubai. It covered 19,924 individuals; 3,995 families, 1,992 Emirati families, 1,701 expatriate families, 302 grouped families and 500 individuals from labour communities.
Khaled Al Kamda, Director-General of CDA, said the study reflects CDA’s keenness to enhance social services in Dubai according to Dubai Strategic Plan 2015. “The study is a path-breaking initiative that helps decision-makers and public and private sectors to design policies and plans through an accurate database.”
“We are keen to enhance cooperation with strategic partners and co-launch promising initiatives and programmes that are useful for the community, and Dubai Statistic Center, one of our distinguished partners, played an active role in conducting this study,” Al Kamda said.
According to the study, some 80 per cent of Emiratis have conservative consumption attitude but they also top the list of bank borrowers, 14.7 per cent of which are defaulters. They are followed by Westerners, 15.5 per cent of which 5.1 are defaulters, Arab expats 13.4 per cent of which 2.1 per cent are defaulters, and Asian expats, 10.1 per cent of which 3.7 per cent are defaulters.
Of those surveyed, 13 per cent of them do not agree that there is freedom to exercise religious rites in Dubai, 16 per cent do not agree that everyone receives equal treatment by the police, 19.6 per cent believe that there is no equal treatment by judicial authorities, 22.6 per cent say they have no access to health facilities, 23 per cent feel there is discrimination in the treatment of people with disabilities, 24 per cent believe that there is discrimination in society based on gender (male and female) and 26.4 per cent say that low-skilled workers are not treated well in society.